Home for Wayward Sluts: November 2016 http://kinkunveiled.blogspot.ca/?zx=8dcd321b700cd6d8

Friday, 25 November 2016

Reverse 3 Days -Day 1

My two slaves are to be tasked with taking a normally dominant man and treating him, along with themselves, as a slave who will be subject to an intense 3 days of sex. In my absence, the girls will take this man and attempt to convert him into a Cock: a slave who's entire existence and purpose is in his cock.

The slaves will make a list of the worst punishments that could be inflicted upon them, stored in sealed envelopes. If they are judged to have failed in properly enforcing these guidelines over the full 3 days, the envelopes shall be opened and the slaves punished severely.

10 Rules for the 3 days:

1) A timer shall be set, to ring once ever hour, on the hour. Every hour, each slave will drink 1 glass of water between 8am and 9pm.
2) Slaves will only urinate in the Cock's mouth, or alternatively in each other's mouths. The slaves and the Cock will not use a toilet except for poop.  The Cock will only pee through a hard on: potentially while being jerked off or blown by a slave  while peeing in the mouth of one of the slaves,
she can then spit it out into a bowl.
3) Every drop of cum shall be shared and then swallowed.  If the Cock cums in a slave's anus, he or the other slave will lick it out of the anus and potentially share it once or twice with kisses before it is swallowed.
4) The Cock will only cum with permission and while ordered by a slave. Failure to cum may result in the Cock being punished. The Cock will flex his PC muscles and prevent every possible drop of cum from exiting his cock if proper permission has not been granted.
5) As few exits for pee exist in this system of slaves, showers/baths will be taken daily and peeing will be permitted in a way where it is not swallowed but simply peed onto someone else. That person must be masturbating.
6) Porn will be shown to the Cock at all times and all of his attention put on porn. The slaves will select suitable porn and make every effort to encourage the Cock to visualise having all manner of sexual relations with any individuals shown in the porn.  The goal should be to make the Cock as lustful as possible for the girls shown to him and to constantly imagining having sex with them and the slaves in an orgy.
7) Slaves may and shall use the cock of the Cock at every opportunity, day or night without consideration of the Cock's sleep requirements. A slave may and is encouraged to order the other slave to frequently perform perverse sexual which will be considered allowable deviations from the daily plans listed below.
8) The Cock will be bound to the bed at all times with the exception of brief release periods so that he can fuck a slave instead of being ridden, or for trips to the bathroom (see point 5). Additionally, a hand may be freed in order to make the Cock masturbate.
9) The Cock will eat food exclusively from the anuses of the slaves.  This requires that only phallic foods or creative alternatives like whip cream be his diet for the entire 3 days.
10)  The slaves shall maintain a level of intensity and focus to see that the Cock is constantly in sexual use or briefly recovering from sexual use. The goal should be to make the Cock beg for mercy and relief yet that mercy shall not be given. At the end of the 3 days, the Cock should be completely and utterly sexually spent.  If the Cock is unable to perform sexually with hard ons, he shall be anally pleasured.  If he fails to maintain proper focus on porn, masturbation and worse, if he begs for sexual rest: spanking, clamps (moved every 5 minutes), cock rings, floggers and scratchng may be employed to ensure he obeys.   This an be a brief form of relief from the constant sexual attention.

Day 1
The first day will be characterized by little or no cumming at all.  The Cock will be brought to near forced to mastubate constantly when not otherwise engaged.
orgasm as often as possible and will
8am- The slaves both drink a large glass of water. They then bind the Cock to the bed with the underbed restraints.
8:05am- The slaves put on the very first porn selection and begin with a dual blowjob
8:30am- The Cock is reminded that he cannot cum without permission and the slaves begin tagging off on the blow jobs that keep him hard and close to cumming without being allowed to blow his load. Tagging off between blowjobs shall last 1.5 hours.
10am -For rest, the Cock shall be anally penetrated and a butt plug left in his anus for at least 1 hour.  The blowjobs shall continue, swapping girls every 15 minutes. If the Cock should cum, the blowjobs shall continue unrelenting, even though his cock will become extremely sensitive and he will try and buck the slaves off.
Noon- Lunch break.  The slaves feed the Cock lots of frozen fruits, directly out of their asses. Any time the Cock has to pee, he must piss in one of the slaves mouths who then spits it into a bowl.
12:30pm-  The Cock shall have a hand released and made to masturbate to porn while the slaves take turns supervising him and speaking into his ear about the thoughts he should be having towards the porn girls.  This will go on for 3 hours, the slaves swapping in an out as required. If the Cock accidentally cums, the slaves will say, "Keep the cum inside you! FLEX! Don't squirt any out." so that the Cock keeps his energy in. He will then continue to touch himself.  The slaves, with their regular drinking of water, will use his mouth liberally for enjoying oral sex as they piss in the Cock's mouth as required. The slaves will also masturbate beside him.
3:30pm- Snack time. The Cock shall be untied and have a supervised pee break where the slaves decide how he shall piss through a hard on as they pleasure his cock constantly making peeing very difficult.
4pm- The Cock shall still be untied and put on all fours. The slaves will take turns having their asses eaten out by the Cock while the other eats out his ass and sticks fingers up his ass. Some snacks will be put in a slave's ass so the Cock shall be fed.
4:30 The Cock will masturbate again. The slaves will take turns inserting things and fingers into each other's asses and then into each person's mouth, so the cock will have many sample tastes of each slave's asses. The slaves will each tell the Cock stories about how he will have to do this with every girl in the porn that is showing
5pm- The Cock will masturbate as he watches the slaves pleasure each other and cum repeatedly as the Cock is not allowed to cum. The slaves will focus on the girls in porn as they pleasure each other and encourage each other to think about the girls on the screen.
6pm- Duo-blowjob challenge. The Cock shall be pleasured with blowjobs from both slaves for the next hour. His job is simply not to cum for the next hour. The cock is tied up to the bed again and then blown by both slaves.  The girls goal is to make him cum, although the both tell him repeatedly that he is not allowed to cum. If the Cock is bad and cums, the slaves are then allowed to liberally punish the Cock.  They will both be allowed to use floggers, clamps, scratching, spanking and other abuses and make the Cock suffer all over his body. The goal will be to make him feel pain over every inch of his body.
7pm- If the cock did not cum, the slaves will reward the Cock by duo-fucking him: One girl fucking him and the other feeding him her ass until he cums. If he already came, he will have to masturbate for 1/2 and hour before he is taken downstairs to the dungeon and tied to the hanging crossbar where the girls take turns beating him harshly, taking turns one at a time every 15 minutes where one slave blows him while the other inflicts pain.
9pm-  The Cock will be taken upstairs again, tied up and fucked by one slave, and then the other
10pm- Bedtime. The Cock shall be allowed to sleep. Drinking water hourly by the slaves will cease for the night. Any time the slaves need to urinate, they will wake the Cock, get him hard to the porn which is still showing, and piss in his mouth while receiving oral sex. If the slave feels like sex at any time during the night, she may fuck the Cock or even untie him so that he can fuck her. He may only cum with her permission.

Wednesday, 23 November 2016

Polyamory, Polygamy and the Law (Canada)

Three polygamists in British Columbia are to go to trial at the Supreme Court of Canada for marrying off three 12 and one 13 year old child brides.  One of the accused is the leader of a Bountiful Fundamentalist Latter Day Saints faction, which is a Mormon spin off church.  The main issue seems to be 'shipping underaged girls across the border' to Texas.  And the reason I am writing about this is, these marriages first came to light at the Supreme Court trial on determining the constitutionality of outlawing polygamy.

Full disclosure: I am very pro-polyamory.  I have done a number of posts about polyamory (and here amongs many others) but that doesn't mean I am pro-swinging or pro-polygamy -- especially with child brides.  But let's take an objective look at this trial from an intellectual point of view.  That said, Winston Blackmore and James Oler were charged in 2009 with 'practicing polygamy' and that too, is something to discuss.

Let's start with the definitions:
Polygamy: having more than one wife or husband at the same time --and it is legal in 57 of the 200 nations of the world.

Polyandry: having more than one husband at the same time -- is illegal everywhere but widely practiced in rural Tibet.

Polygyny: having more one wife at the same time is the 'more accepted' form of polygamy and by extension is legal in 57 of the current nation states of the world.  

Conjugal: relating to a marriage or relationship

Polyamory: having more than one lover, of any sex,  Let's talk about sex and the Law in Canada.  Polyamory is illegal in Canada. Section 293 of the Criminal Code of Canada states that 5 years in prison is the penalty for more than 2 adults living together in 'a group conjugal situation'.  So having a relationship with several people is illegal in Canada. Worse, the law states that you don't even have to be having sex with the people to be breaking the law. And then to go totally over the top, is fact the law states that anyone present at a ceremony (or wedding) binding those in a relationship with more than one person ALSO commits polygamy can be sentenced to up to 5 years in jail.  Fucking nuts. Here's the actual line relating to this:

(b) celebrates, assists or is a party to a rite, ceremony, contract or consent that purports to sanction a relationship mentioned in subparagraph (a)(i) or (ii),
is guilty of an indictable offence and liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding five years.
Now on November 23, 2011, the BC Supreme Court ruled that Section 293 doesn't apply to 'unformalized polyamorous relationships'  but does still put an outright ban on formally declaring your love and commitment to your partners as an indictable criminal offence punishable by 5 years in jail. Still, the current wording of Section 293 of the Criminal Code of Canada is desperately in need of change.

Should practicing polyamory be illegal?  Absolutely not. Polyamory causes no harm, though the court system seems to think -- and this has been legally argued -- that one guy having more than one girl would cause havoc because there's less girls to go around.  But this is mildly retarded because there is no reason 2 guys or even 5 guys could be in a committed relationship with 1 girl.  Things will probably balance out based on the number of available partners.  And also...what if all the guys are gay?  Honestly, there is a certain amount of freedom that people deserve and 1st among those is keeping the government out of our bedrooms.  As long as everyone is consenting, it should be legal and it's nobody else's damn business.  So definitely and most certainly, polyamory shouldn't be illegal.

Should practicing polygamy be illegal? This is a trickier question. Being free to love anyone you want is one thing. But marrying multiple others would require more complex shifts in how the law, hospitals and taxes all react to multiple spouses. For example, if someone with 3 spouses is left brain dead from an accident, who gets to decide if the life support should be withdrawn?  But considering that mankind has already created the most complex tax codes imaginable, I am certain that these technical issues can be resolved.  

My main concerns with polygamy and more specifically, polygyny is girls being forced to marry guys they don't want to marry.  This probably occurs most frequently under religious contexts and then there is great potential for the marriage to be about power and frought with power imbalances.  In the case with Blackmore and Oler, the girls were 12 or 13 and shipped from BC down to Texas to marry a man with 80+ wives. That just seems problematic as far as power goes.  And it certainly doesn't see to be about marrying someone you love.  Not if you never met them. :/

So the main issue that people see is the age difference between the girls and the husband. Personally, when I was 12 I was completely able to tell if I wanted to kiss someone or not.  And I am also perfectly certain that some judge or policeman would utterly unqualified and unable to make that determination for me.  No, I think it is completely ageist to say that because a person is younger, they can't decide to get married or know who they love.  When I think about it, you could argue that people could get married at 4 years old or something but...really, when I was 4 I had little concept of what that meant and don't think I had an desires that way at all.  So I wouldn't have gotten married that young...but then again, when I was in 6,  I did have a big crush on a girl named Christine. I even gave her a Valentine's day card telling her that I loved her. I even thought that when I grew up I wanted to marry her.   By the time I was 12...if given the opportunity to marry a 45 year old woman with 81 other husbands, I would have been absolutely sure to say, "No damn way!"  

Massive disparities between the number of males to females is a warning sign that not everything is right.  10 to 1 is so unlikely ...that one guy or girl could be so awesome to attract that many lovers willing to marry and share them...it just seems off. Of course, this could work if everyone is lovers with each other -- or at least some of the others. Then it becomes a network... a loving family of people who have taken the time to legally commit to one another.

Honestly, as long as all the people in the marriage are entering into it with open eyes and knowing exactly what the situation is, I don't have a problem with it and since there is no harm being done to anyone and everyone is doing what they want, who am I to say that what they are doing is wrong. It is only the case of people being forced and coerced to do things they don't want, in which there should be laws in place to protect against that...as it is still illegal to rape, kidnap or abuse people, but marrying people...that doesn't need to be lumped into the same category of illegal. So should polygamy be illegal? No, so long as everyone is honestly consenting and willing.

The case of Blackmore and Oler, Bountiful Polygamists
In the case of Blackmore and Oler, Fundamentalist Latter Day Saints aka Mormons, I want to say that girls marrying a man with multiple wives is fine...but I can't.  The girls were sent from Bountiful BC down to Texas by their parents. They married out of duty, not love. The man they married had over 80 other wives.  The wives were not in love with each other  (and this is biggie because 80 girls cannot be satisfied sexually by one man.  The wives would have to truly love and have sexual relations with each other...and I believe Mormons frown on that!).  Finally, the age difference of a 12 year old girl with a 45 year old male...I won't say that's in any way impossible, but considering all the other factors, this really seems not right.

The girls are probably be coerced and controlled. The imbalances here don't add up. But do they warrant a life sentence for child molestation?  I don't the intent is that malicious. But the girls should probably be helped in some way and given a real, true choice and say in the matter. Informed choice after seeing the living conditions, speaking with the other wives and most of all, one that isn't profoundly influenced by the pressures of a tightly knit religious community.

The final words of this I will leave to Warren Jeffs, the Texan Latter Day Saints leader who got the aforementioned life sentence. This is what he said on the day he married his 13 year old wife:

"I am smiling. I rejoice in the Lord's will. These young girls have been given to me to be taught and trained how to come into the presence of God and help redeem Zion from their youngest years before they go through teenage doubting and fears and boy troubles," Jeffs allegedly said.
"I will just be their boy trouble and guide them right, the Lord help me." 

Friday, 18 November 2016

Giving a good Ejob

Giving good ejob is hard these days...especially when most people don't know what an ejob is.  Well, an ejob is blowjob given over the internet.  What? How do you give a bj over the internet??  Well, thanks to the creative people at the adult site 'CamSoda', they offer a new service called 'Blowcast'.  This service allows an 'actress' to perform a blowjob on a dildo with sensors in it and then those signals are sent, through the miracle of the internet, to the electronic cockstroker that you have placed firmly over your wiener.

Yes, the age of teledildonics is upon us. So an ejob is using teledildonics to electronically transmit a blowjob over the internet. Yes, with the power of a webcam and streaming adult sites, she can blow you while you watch and finally, highly skilled oral practitioners will get properly rewarded for their skills.  Yes, watch her on your laptop as she gives you an ejob.

How much is this electronic blowjob sleeve?  Well, it's a steal at $250 if you consider that all blowjobs are free for the first month and $1 afterward.  Seriously...this seems too cheap. Then again, look at the supported teledildonics ejob masturbator, Kiiroo's Onyx sleeve,  and the comments on Amazon are not exactly wild praise.  "Poorly implemented", "a disappointment from the start" and "the main function of the device is useless".  

A few additional concerns I have are...how do I know this isn't just a pre-recorded blowjob? What if
the girl just pretends to be giving the best head that this service can provide? Worse, what if a hacker gets control of the sleeve and decides to bite?? :'(

This is obviously the first step in an industry that will eventually get it right...but it sounds to me like there is an awful lot of bugs to get out. Transmitting a blowjob accurately can't be easy or we'd already have sex toys that can do a decent job at it. I can't imagine this device gives anything approaching an average blowjob given by one of my sex slaves.

On the plus side, with the advent of ejobs, you are guaranteed to be safe from acquiring sexually transmitted diseases.

Finally, girls, this one is for you! You can submit your bj!

Wednesday, 9 November 2016

Crash Course in Transgender Interactions

He, she, it...what do I call them?  Seriously, this is a pretty easy one that a lot of people just coming in contact with transgender people struggle with.  But the answer is truly simple: call them the gender that they are making efforts to embrace.  For example, if you see a biological male wearing a dress, then call her, 'her' because that's what she feels like and probably prefers.   Likewise, if it is 'guy' whom you suspect is a bio-female, well, 'him' is the default way to go.  Don't switch. Don't struggle with it. Just use the feminine gender if she is trying to be a girl and the male gender if he is trying to be a guy.

"It" is never ever appropriate and is deeply offensive. How would you feel if someone called you, 'it'? Well, trans people are not somehow superhuman and immune to that feeling too - so don't use it.

Saying "just pick a gender to call a trans-person " may be a bit controversial as some people don't like
"assuming your gender" and all that, but a couple of trans friends have said, "the awkwardness of people struggling over their gender is so painful. I'm wearing a dress, what the fuck do you think I want to be called??"  So yeah, of course, the if person tells you that they prefer to be called 'him' or 'her' then call them that.  The default should be the gender they are displaying.

Now, what if you aren't sure?  Well, unfortunately, all standard singular English pronouns have a gender, There are other pronouns such as 'per' to refer to a person without gender. I have always felt this verb made me sound like a guy studying feminism. People tend to react with surprise and equal discomfort to odd words and that in itself draws more attention to the subject.  Instead, I greatly prefer using, 'they'.  Everyone knows what it means, it's common English and it just flows.

Ok, next: discussing if they are taking hormones, surgery, and the status of their genitals...never do
this when you just meet someone. Seriously. If you just meet someone and they start quizzing you if you are circumcised or if your pussy is completely shaved....that is utterly inappropriate.    So just don't fucking do it. Hormones and surgery are deeply personal and their medical status, just like any medical condition I have, is none of your business. Especially if we just met!

Now can you ask about their genitals? Well fuck, anyone I sleep with, I discuss shaving and other
genital issues (like tendencies for him to turtle or gather lint if it is brightly colored)....so if you are getting intimate with the person and considering having sex with them...yeah, that's fair to ask what you're getting yourself into. But generally, that conversation doesn't happen with everyone and certainly not within minutes of meeting the person.

On to bathrooms: trans people go in the bathroom associated with their gender. So if they are dressed as a woman, it's the woman's bathroom.  Is there an issue with trans people molesting people because there are 'men' in the women's bathroom.  No. Probably the worst thing for a trans-woman in a bathroom is someone calling them a man and they definitely don't want to call attention to that biological fact which is so different from their true self.   And honestly, how much do you really want to interact with strangers in any bathroom? Just leave them be and they'll leave you be and everyone will get on with their day.