Home for Wayward Sluts: April 2016 http://kinkunveiled.blogspot.ca/?zx=8dcd321b700cd6d8

Thursday, 28 April 2016

Open Letter to 18 Year Old Boys

On 18 year old boys who claim to be Alpha dominants -- and them feeling they can satiate the needs of an older cougar is...so blatantly optimistic.  Do you sent a single minnow to feed a shark?  I feel sad for all the unsatisfied cougars who hoped their young boy toy would have cum with some skills.

An 18 year old boy would be wise to know that a 30s and early 40s woman is at her sexual peak. But unlike himself, she has literally decades of sexual experience -- mostly with guys vastly more experienced than himself.  Yes, you may be at your sexual peak, but can you deliver? How many times have you actually gone down on a woman? 4?  (omg, 14? Really? You are practically a pro!!) And she's not going to be in the slightest
bit impressed with you finding the clitoris and then employing the alphabet technique -- hell, even if she cums once she's not gonna be impressed.  You have to deliver Earth-shattering orgasms and do so frequently....just 'making her cum' is nowhere near enough.   She is a tigress and the only reason you are with her is...she is hungry.

So be warned: she doesn't want 'an orgasm' where she whimpers and it ends with a sigh...she wants to claw at the sheets, screaming at the top of her lungs as she fills the air with shejaculate.  And if you don't, you know she'll be using her vibe in frustration after she skillfully removes you from her apartment.

The point is: don't act like you know everything and that you can miraculously quench all her sexual energy.  Be there to learn and serve and touch her all over her body -- enjoying the entire process.  Don't make a beeline to her clit as if you'll earn a medal for finding it first. Find her skin -- which is all over her body.  And worship it.  Then let her take the lead and teach you some fucking lessons.

Sunday, 24 April 2016

Creating a Slave Ceremony

The ceremony I am doing is not for a digital world, however
I am currently in the process of drafting a slave ceremony to initiate a new slave -- and also to have on hand for future slave girls too.  The thing is, it is growing to epic proportions. There is so much I wish to say about the entire institution of slavery and the relationship that we are embarking upon...that I think it shouldn't be done in just one level.

Why are multiple levels important? If I give her the entire ceremony (in say....an hour or two) then most of the lessons and wisdom imparted during the ceremony will be lost. It is simply too much.  No, I think it's best to create several tiers of initiation. So she can grasp it fully and even memorize some of the stuff from the previous ceremony to 'pass' on to the next level and prove that she is worthy.

So creating a section where she has to recite prior learnings...is making the whole project even longer!

Also, I will have to indoctrinate my currently active slave in these ceremonies first! As I wrote the
ceremony -- I found it useful to have another slave present to assist me.

Anyway, I find this all a worthwhile project -- and let me know if you'd be interested in reading the final product when I'm done! (I may not post it, however, as it is a secret and sacred ceremony.)  Anyways, I am seriously considering collaring this little slut.  Of course, I will have to discuss this first with my current slave -- but collaring could also be a part of the ceremony -- or at least one of the levels of the ceremonies.

Saturday, 23 April 2016

On Defilement

Defilement is a frequent theme in BDSM related sex but what it is really all about? Defilement might include activities that denigrate and degrade your partner during sex for erotic pleasure.  Common activities include spitting on their face, hair pulling, pissing on them, scratching them, insulting them with coarse language and even forcing them to drink your piss and then puke it up all over themselves.   An uninitiated lover may think this behavor completely horrifying and disrespectful of all feminist ideals...but what is really going on here?

Defilement is not about lack of respect for your partner but rather a desire to be fully oneself with your partner: free to do anything at all that the rest of society frowns upon but your lover accepts you fully and because of that acceptance: the two of you form a deep bond of trust and understanding.  And deep bonds of trust and understanding are ultimately what good sex is all about.

Friday, 8 April 2016


Sometimes you want to procrastinate (so you have more time to do things later) - but you are also horny and want to masturbate. For many, this dilemma causes a conflict between finally washing out the bathtub or doing laundry and from a quick fap.  But there's great news! If you procrasterbate, you can both procrastinate AND masturbate at the same time! In fact, procrastubation is one of the best ways to procrastinate and ensure you take pleasure now at the expense of future gain.

Sorry guys, I'm having trouble uh, getting my car started

In fact, it took me several times to publish this article due to several intense procrastubation sessions.

Seriously though, procrastubation is great for delaying household chores...just don't let it make you late for work.

Thursday, 7 April 2016

How to Love Anal

Well anal sex is a thing that many people want to try-- but do it badly and so don't properly enjoy it.  Just 'doing' anal sex is not enough. You gotta love it!

And I do mean love it! The sphincter is an involuntary muscle and will respond to your stressed out state...or to your state of relaxation and really wanting it.   And this can make the difference between a painful experience and something utterly orgasmic...so which would you prefer?

Now you have to ask yourself, "why do I want to do anal?"  Personally, I'd prefer the answer of, "I
really want to be a well rounded, 3 hole slut."  If you are doing it strictly to please your partner...you need to work on your motivation. This is about your pleasure. Fucking own that.

If you have a partner who is 'very enthusiastic' and you are feeling pressured to perform...that's putting stress on you and just might be causing your ass to slam shut -- and then when anything tries to go up there it feel uncomfortable.  Worse, you have no experience with it feeling good to fall back on...and the who experience crashes and burns.

So how do you overcome the 'pressuring parter?  Say, 'fuck off already."  And then learn to masturbate and touch your ass at the same time.  Learn what feels good to you.  When there is no one else around and plenty of time -- so there's no pressure.  You can just relax and explore: see what it feels like and figure out what feels good to you.

Things you should know:
group-butt-pic1) You can never have too much lube.  Use tons. Often
2) Start small and work your way up.  A small trainer is great to get going and used to the idea of something in your butt. Wear it while you masturbate and even get used to wearing it out doing other stuff.  Very soon, like in a few days, you will be able to graduate up to a larger size.  Then do the same with this...and work your way up to an even bigger size.  In less than a month you could take a huge monster if you wanted to. Easily.  It isn't that hard -- as 95% of this is mental. Your ass will stretch out easily.
3) Get used to playing with toys that are a fair bit thicker than your partner.  The bigger the toys you play with in private, the easier it will be take him up your ass.
4) There is no rush. Start slow and wait for your butt to 'acclimatize'
5) Enemas are great for cleaning things out so it's less shitty...but don't use an enema immediately before play as it removes all the mucous from the mucous membranes and generally makes things a little more tender...so wait an hour or so.

But the main thing is:  enjoy it! This is about your pleasure. Focus on that and only that. Figure out what feels good for you and do it because it feels amazing.  That's why girls I know have gotten addicted to anal sex...not to 'please their partner' (which smacks of bullshit) but because they love it.

Finally, you should know that energetically speaking, anal sex opens up a different chakra than regular sex. So anal orgasms feel very different. And very good.  Sometimes the feeling of 'this is too rough and intense' breaks open and blossoms into a shattering orgasm.  So hang on for the ride.

And if you get really good at anal, you can even learn to play golf:

Monday, 4 April 2016

Women Wear Latex for the First Time

This video was sent to me by a slave of mine -- but to be honest, I am not really sure what she was thinking.  Perhaps she thought it might make a good blog post?  Because I think it makes a good blog post ;)  Specifically, it shows women wearing latex fetish clothes for the first time...and generally they love it. Why? Because latex is super sexy and feels amazing. It could also be argued that it looks better than it feels -- but then again, I have strong anchors to this kind of clothing and I immediately associate it with kinky sex, dungeons, sexy people, bondage and whipped asses.

Which is what you are supposed to think of when you try latex on for the first time, right? Hardcore BDSM? Mmmmmmmm

Friday, 1 April 2016

Slavery: the games

There are boardgames and video games that inolve sex slavery...let's take a look.  There is Puttanopoly (an Italian game of Whoreville) that plays roughtly like Monopoly.  Each prostitute starts the game penniless and having just signed a slavery contract which has them agreeing to pay thier pimps 90% of their earnings.

Prostitutes can win by getting a paid trip to work in Amsterdam and getting rescued by a client who falls in love with her.   But to do this, they have to dodge battering pimps, serial killers, police, and try to find enough cash to pay for their apartment while paying their pimp.

There is also this terrible looking (and obviously prototype boardgame on sex slavery but I could find
nothing about the rules.   I can see that self-esteem is one of the card piles in the photo.

The video trailer below is not for a real video game...but this is apparently a real link to a free space pimp game (that i have not downloaded due to concerns about viruses and the file sizes seem off to me...but if it is safe, let me know!)  https://moizi.itch.io/sex-slaves-of-space