Home for Wayward Sluts: January 2015 http://kinkunveiled.blogspot.ca/?zx=8dcd321b700cd6d8

Saturday, 31 January 2015

Selena Gomez Bound

Just a quick post about Bustin Jieber's girl (ex? I dunno, I barely have these things on my radar).  I saw this picture of Selena Gomez wearing a white romper and there was only one thing I saw. Yes, in classic ink plot (the Rorscharch test) fashion...I analyised my psyche and found it perverted.

You see...all I saw was the ropes binding her angles so she looked like a bound slave out for a walk. Selena is uncollared and for some sad reason her hands are free when clearly they should be bound too. Oh wait...the ropes joining her feet are actually the boat lines :-/

But still, I have no doubt she'd make an excellent sex slave after convincing her that it would be really fun for her...though I am not sure if I could stomach the pick up as I'd probably have to go in with douche-bag approach as obviously she has a type.

Thursday, 29 January 2015

Subspace and Slutspace

Finding her inner slut
Slut in slutspace -- living the dream
(and you can see it, can't you?)
Most people familiar with BDSM know what subspace is. It is that awesome zen headspace where all your thoughts go away and you are one with you Dom/Domme and just floating and blissful. Every sense is heightened and every lick of torture makes you fly higher.

But what about Slutspace? Slutpace is that primal, untamed sexual hunger that can only be quenched by a thousand throbbing cocks. It's the feeling of sexual power and embracing who you are as sexual being so much that it drives and empowers you. You feel strong, healthy, alive and JUST want to fuck.

In slutspace, you can walk down the street and all eyes are on you as people sense your radiating energy. Every conversation you have is flirty and things...just flow.  Being in slutspace could have you making out with 2 people at once and it just feels right (none of that awkward bullshit). You have accepted yourself, your sexuality...and now you just want to play.

Wednesday, 21 January 2015

The Natural Sex Toy You Never Knew You Had

It seems like guys are willing to spend any amount of money on a sex toy just to please his woman. And many a toy is marketed more at guys than women or at least they seem that way to me. A lot of vibrator packaging has a scantily dressed woman in suggestive position on the box -- which yes, may appeal to some women in a 'I'd like to be her' sort of way. But is it for her? Or for some dude who is thinking about buying one for her?

Granted, sex toys have come a long way in recent years with girl throwing sex toy parties -- which sounds soooo much more fun than tupperware parties! (Then again...tying my shoes sounds more fun than going to a party which discusses ways to store food in great detail.)   But for the guys looking at dildos and vibrators...why not use the natural sex toy you already have?

What is it?  Your nose. Yup. Your nose is a really great sexual aid. Why? Because its soft, warm and spongy...and the tip of your nose is very sensitive too! All of which means your nose is the perfect tool to use on her clit. Go on, rub it on her clit and concentrate on the sensations that feel really good on the tip of your nose. If it feels good to your nose...it will feel great on her clit.

Also, this is an absolute must when you are sucking on her pussy and licking her clit like a champ...but you just need a breather so your tongue doesn't cramp up. Just switch to your nose and you're golden.

Note: If you use your nose...all you may smell for the next hour is pussy. So yeah, it had side benefits too!

Tuesday, 6 January 2015

How to Squirt, Part 2: Tell Her to Push

I was reading over my guide to how to make girls squirt and I noticed that one point, while present, is worthy of repeating: Tell her to push.

This point is absolutely key as it is a conversation and both of you working together towards a common goal (even if she doesn't know what that goal is *evil grins*).  If you are going to try and make her squirt and she knows that is the goal -- but she has never squirted before, well, she could be nervous about it and all in her head. This is no good this kind of mindset does not lend itself particularly well towards orgasms of any kind. So when would the best time be to try it?  After she's just cum like a maven. That way she is all floppy and relaxed, satisfied and therefore impossible to disappoint. With no expectations, she's in the ideal headspace to cum more.

female_ejaculation_instructionsAlso, squirting has a whole bunch of expectation built in for a woman...and she's probably going to be thinking a whole ton (too much) about what is going on. And what she really needs to do is it back and relax without a worry in the world. Y'know, kinda like that post cumming bliss.

Now it's time to give her instructions and guide her towards a new and fun experience (but don't pressure her in any way).

1. Once she is laying on her back, insert a finger or two into her (you may wish to build this up a little, kissing her thighs before licking her bare pussy...and then work your way up to inserting yourself in her...but I'll let you be the judge of when she is ready).

how_to_shejaculate2. Tell her, "Squeeze down on my fingers." With
any luck, you will feel a tight squeeze on your

fingers. But I'd say half the time you feel...nothing. She scrunches up her face and makes it look like she's squeezing somewhere...but it ain't your fingers! If that happens, tell her, "Great, now can you squeeze in a different sort of way?"  or "Try pushing on my fingers and try to force them out of you." The idea is to work with her so you give her feedback when she is squeezing and pushing properly.  You can tell her to flex her muscles just as she does when she stops herself from peeing or do the opposite and 'open up' like she doesn when she pees. Also, you should reassure her that she can't pee while sexually aroused (ok, not totally true as I have taught my slave how to do this, but it takes practice! At first she would try and try and could not pee even though I'd made her drink a pitcher of water and then waited till she had to go really bad. But that's another story.)

3. Once she has zeroed in on the right muscles, encourage her to alternate between squeezing and pushing. You will feel her muscles squeeze in on the side of your fingers when she squeezes and more on the tips moving down when she pushes.

4. Continue to lick her clit, play with her nipples, etc and get her to push harder and hard as she does so. Make you tell her to push! Often. Begin playing with her g-spot more and more as she gets more aroused.  Get her close to orgasm...and let her relax in between big powerful pushes.

5.  You should be feeling her bear down on your fingers and her cervix pushing against you finger tips. As the cervix pushes against your finger tips, back out of her pussy so her cervix is just at your fingertips...and keep guiding her to push as bear down farther and farther so your fingers move further out of her. After she is done pushing, move back into her as it helps to have something to push against.

5. As she gets closer to orgasm, use the 'come hither' technique I describe in the 'how to squirt' post and at the same time, tell her, 'PUSH!' And as she cums, order her now, 'Push harder! Push your orgasm out!" As she orgasms, her cervix should push your fingers 100% out of her pussy -- and as this happens she will squirt!
Note: You can also do this but keep your fingers aggressively massaging her g-spot as she
orgasms...but I have found that her muscles are sometimes not strong enough to cum and squirt while fingers are in her. If she has stronger muscles, removing your fingers (at the right time) still makes it easier to squirt.

6.  Bathe in her glorious female ejaculate! Lick her beautiful pussy and tell her how much you love her shejaculate. Taste it (because female ejaculation tastes fucking great!) Swallow her squirt! Breathe in her squirting orgasm. And then fuck her with the massive hard on her wonderful squirting has given you!

7. Sleep in the wet spot.  (It may be a bit cold...but it's still awesome.)

Monday, 5 January 2015

Sex Tip from Science: Sexy Socks

thight_high_sexy_socksWearing socks significantly increases chance of orgasm (feeling warm and safe makes you relaxed and able to get aroused.) Yup, if you are wearing socks, you are way more likely to get off.

So much for aesthetics.

But then again, what is more important? And also, what looks sexier: a) a girl who is wearing a ridiculously skimpy dress who doesn't cum or b) a girl who is wearing brown socks and squirting all over the place? I am gonna put my money on option B.

Ok, now how can we work with this? The answer is clearly thigh high socks that look super goddamn sexy.  Either the innocence of thigh high schoolgirl socks or a sporty version of thigh high boots...it's all good as long as those socks go over the knees.

So let's find a way to slut up those socks and get you feeling warm, comfortable...and orgasmic! Because a girl who is cumming is the very definition of sexy! Also, if you squirt...the socks are probably the best suited to not suffer at all from the moistness (compared to thigh high leather boots!)