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Friday, 21 October 2016

Becoming an Artist

In my decision to move this kink blog to my own website on an independent url where I have complete control, I have been busy creating my own content and images for every page.  This is, as it turns out, a massive undertaking! I am making all sorts of kink friendly, BDSM images and finding my own artwork style -- but it is a real challenge.

Also, I have gotten permission to use some of the excellent artwork of a couple of artists that I will feature on the new site.  Additionally, I am struggling with drawing realistic looking latex.  I love how shiny and sexy latex is...but getting it right by drawing it is damn difficult. I am working on it and still finding my own style, but it is a great challenge.

However, I am also discovering that I absolutely adore creating artwork with sexy women, especially in a fetish context. Oh, an making squirting look good is also a challenge. Similar to making latex look shiny, drawing female ejaculate flying out of a wet pussy without disappearing into the background and looking weird...well, let's just say I am still figuring that one out. :/

Here is an early example of my work, but I am still finding my legs. :p  If anyone has feedback on what they like or not about this, please let me know!

Monday, 26 September 2016

How to Find Your Pornstar Twin

Have you ever wondered what you would look like as a pornstar? I haven't because I have done my own porn to see -- as well as done  professional shoots. But wonder no longer, because Megacams has integrated facial recognition software.  You can use this to find you doppelganger and see yourself having sex. (Side note: I always thought doppelganger came from AD&D's Monster Manual but apparently people aside from geeks know this creature.)

So anyway, if you go to this link here on Megacams you can upload a photo of yourself and find the pornstars/chat stars that look most like you.  And of course you can use it to find pornstars that also look like your crush! Added bonus: find the twin of your girl and have that 3-some with twins you've always dreamed about (without the incest).

Unfortunately, the website doesn't do it right away as it takes time to search the database and they want your email to send you the results....so if you are not comfortable giving your email to a porn website, then this probably isn't for you. Also, when I tried this, I initially had difficulty with uploading large photos as it returned 'whoops' errors so I pressed F5 and reloaded the page and searched vs a smaller image and it worked just fine.

Oh, and it emailed me the results almost instantly!

But the results...not exactly close, I would say. :/  Then again, if only got a 47% match so maybe you'll have more luck.  His name is Esteval and you check out his chat channel here.

Tuesday, 13 September 2016

Can IUDs Stop Your Period?

Y-IUD: Not pokey and way better than copper
(yeah, crappy copper can make you bleed more, not less)
IUDs....the best kept secret in birth control. They tell you they aren't safe and only work as birth control for women who have already had a baby. This is complete bullshit.   The truth is: IUDs are completely safe for teenagers and anyone regardless if they have been pregnant or not.  IUD or intrauterine devices are being used by over 150 million women worldwide and doctors have found that teens don't have any more problems with them than anyone else. In fact, fuck heavy bleeding, they are far more likely to majorly reduce cramps and menstrual bleeding.  In fact, there are a whole lot of reasons I'm gonna discuss why you should be using an IUD.

A poll of American gynecologists found that they were 3 times more likely to prescribe IUDs than family doctors. Now why would that be? Because IUDs are simply inserted and start working immediately -- you don't have to remember to take a pill every day nor fill your body with hormones for them to be effective. And if you remove the device you can become pregnant that day.

So why are IUDs not used more often? The answer is sadly simple: money.  IUDs are incredibly cheap.  They cost around $80-$150 here in Canada and once inserted, they last from 3-5 years officially but remember that big pharma still wants to make a buck and I've read from the Chinese sites (they have an interest in low cost due to their 1 child program) that IUDs are effective for over 10 years.   In contrast, the birth control pill produced by the pharmaceutical industry costs between $25 and $50 a month (and is a giant 'did I remember to take my pill today' pain in the ass).  Let's do the math. After 5 years, a $50 birth control prescription costs $3000...most of that profit for the drug company.  After 5 years, the IUD still has a total cost of $80.  Or $2920 less.
Round IUDs:
Effective & Less Pokey

Insertion by a doctor will cost you but that depends entirely on where you live. An IUD plus insertion cost $200 total for the last girl I talked to.  It takes about 4 minutes for a doctor to put it in so if you pay him $200 to do this you're being juiced for $50/minute.  Even lawyers would balk at charging a rate of $3000/hr.  But it's for 5+ years (IUDs are still effective well after their 'expiry date' because it's not like they dissolve and disappear or anything.)  Anyway, like I said, the $200 included the IUD itself the insertion was only something like $80.  (Also see below for more cost savings)

Now for the kicker. If saving $3000 and never having to think about birth control aren't enough...how about IUDs stopping your period entirely?  You fucking read that right. IUDs can STOP YOUR PERIOD.   Hormonal IUDs reduce your period by an average of 90% (as in way less bleeding and say goodbye to cramps) -- but in many women it also stops the period entirely.  And this stopping of the period is in no way harmful nor does it reduce your future fertility.  How many women have their period stop? That depends on the exact IUD that's inserted but the popular Mirena had, "up to 70% of patients will stop having their periods within 2 years." Yeah, and most of the rest just get drastically reduced bleeding...so even if you don't win completely, you still win! Also think of how much you will save on tampons, new-fucking-underwear and extra time not spent cleaning your sheets.

Now, if your guy (or girl) is really into menstruation porn, you might want to consider other forms of birth control...but I'm inclined to tell him that's he's going to have to make some sacrifices too.

Here's the cost savings by my measure:  Tampons -$7/box.  Midol for pain relief -$7/bottle,  New panties  -$20.    Abortions (yeah, 1 in 3 women have had an abortion so...) -$400 to -$1500 per time.

Oh, and they also stop cervical cancer.   In 26 studies in 2011 alone, women using IUDs were 50% less likely to get cervical cancer.  Apparently the IUD triggers an immune response which fights HPV....so there's that too.  The Annals of Oncology also published a study where IUDs were used as a treatment for endometrial cancer.  27 out of 34 women ended up cancer-free after a year with 9 going on to get pregnant (This is amazing as the normal treatment for endometrial cancer is a hysterectomy.)

They don't cause abortions.  If you are religiously inclined and think you're 'killing a fertilized egg' well, you're not.  IUDs mostly work by killing the sperm before it gets to the egg and also creating a thick mucous barrier in your hoo hoo that stops the sperm from getting to the egg. Also, hormonal IUDs also prevent ovulation so you don't release an egg to begin with. So abortions are not happening because they prevent pregnancy just like every other kind of birth control.  Of course, if you object to birth control then I won't judge you because your life will already be punishing you enough with 10 babies.

How about preventing pregnancy.  After all, the reason you use birth control is to stop you from pooping out rugrats. Ok, technically it's far worse for you pussy than pooping but you get the idea.   So the birth control pill works about 92% of the time. Yeah, lots and lots of people get pregnant on the pill...because 8% is a massive fucking gap between the goalposts for sperm to squeeze through. But that's still better than condoms with 85% (yup...15% of those filled with manbutter get filled with screaming baby as well.) These are the practical rates from those using the pill and condoms vs the theoretical effectiveness (condoms are theoretically 98% effective so the theory is 13% higher than reality...but considering the downside, I'd say keep looking. So how do IUDs stack up?  The practical contraception rate for women using IUDs is between 99.2% and 99.9%  so...fucking brilliant.  Put mathematically: IUDs are between 1800% and 15000% more effective than condoms and 1000%-8000% more effective than the pill. So let's just say, "Way fucking better."

Here's the cost savings by my measure:  Abortions (yeah, 1 in 3 women have had an abortion so...)     -$400 to -$1500 per time.  Cost saved by not raising a child -$300 000.  

Of course, some women argue that having a foreign object inside of you is 'weird' but I'd also consider a little alien baby growing inside of you as a 'weird foreign object' but the IUD will cost you infinitely less.

Now the scary part:

The comments to this video are kinda scary but I've talked with 4 girls who've had IUDs inserted and they all said it kinda sucked for about 30 seconds and then it was fine again, The worst part? Being advised that you should refrain from sex for a 10 days after insertion when another girl said her doctor told her should could have sex right away...which is correct. ;)

Thursday, 18 August 2016

Recipe for Making Love

This is the finest recipe for making love that I know.  This is the real beans here, not stuff that you learned from a book on your grandmother's shelf -- and definitely not that smack sold by magical culinary elfs....this is the recipe for making love.

FYI, this is Harry Connick Jr.

Friday, 12 August 2016

Amber Rayne is Dead

I just learned that porn legend Amber Rayne died.  Literally. I haven't even changed rooms since I found out. I knew Amber on a personal level and we communicated...and then a few months ago she just suddenly just dropped off the face of the Earth. I knew she was rather upset because her horse had died and I thought she had fallen into depression related to that. I sent her several messages...but no reply.  I just realized that I messaged her several times after she died...including the day she died.

And this morning I stumbled across an article saying that she was found dead in her home on April 2nd...4 month ago. :'(   So much for going to a San Jose Sharks game with her.

I immediately googled all I could to find out what had happened.  Apparently she died in her sleep as a result of a cocaine overdose. No doubt a direct result of self-medicating to deal with the death of her horse...whom she is now riding and flying with in heaven.

One thing that makes me upset about all the reports about her death was...they all mention a particular porn actor she was not fond of with respect to a sexual assault.  This had absolutely no relevance to the story and was by no means a defining part of her life. She was strong and didn't let that incident trouble her and to have it mentioned in virtually every report of her death seems just plain wrong.

It would be far more appropriate to include things like she hated smurfs.

Amber Rayne was a beautiful person, both physically and inside in the places it counts. Her given name was Meghan. She was an actress first -- a traditional actress -- and was an understudy in Les Meserables and tried to break into the film industry in California but only succeeded in getting a handful of jobs as a background extra.

But she found her calling in what she described as 'the loving community' of porn. And unlike most porn actresses who cum and go, she stayed with it into her 30s -- and kept her body hot the whole time too. She starred in over 500 adult films and was nominated for over 20 adult film awards...but only won AVN's not so coveted 'Unsung Starlet of the Year' Award.  She deserved better and hopefully she will get more recognition for her work this year, as often it takes a person dying for them to be appreciated.

After retiring from porn, she became a horse trainer and she was making a new life around that  -- and she had always loved horses. In fact, her very first horse as a child was named Amber Rayne.

Monday, 1 August 2016

Dating a Vanilla Person When You Are Kinky

Sometimes, you meet someone and you just feel wildly attracted to them.  There is chemistry and soon you are just thinking about jumping their bones all the time.  But the problem is...every time you mention something 'kinky' they don't respond positively to it. What do you do?

Well, first of all, you have to ask the right questions and drop the right hints and then watch their response.  Specifically, try watching his or her micro-expressions. These are uncontrolled expressions that flash across their face for just a fleeting moment before they regain control and show you what they want you to see.  What their face very closely ... hmmm...maybe you need some practice like this:  http://www.microexpressionstest.com/micro-expressions-test/  

Good, now that you know what to look for...try mentioning spanking her -- and see what her face does...if she reacts with fear or disgust...this girl definitely has some issues with BDSM.

Perhaps you could flat out ask her what she thinks of BDSM or other kinky behaviors...as from my experience, the kinky ones generally don't have a problem talking about it. Scratch that...the experienced and active kinky ones don't. But the ones who are open to but never had the opportunity to explore may be far more concerned with how they appear to you...and not want to just simply reveal that they are good to go for fear of rejection.

The trick is: you don't want to screen out the girls who don't want to appear 'slutty' from the ones who are truly vanilla.

That said, if you do test them on a number of occasions and every time they come up as completely
vanilla...even if you really like them, it is probably not going to work out.  If she loves missionary position with the lights out and you love nasty anal while she's blindfolded and tied to the bed...both of you are on a collision course with a breakup (and mutually unsatisfactory sex).   So be sure. Sit down and have a long dicussion about what you really want in bed. Don't worry if it might go badly as most likely, at the end of this conversation, you are going to break up anyway. Unless they reveal that, 'yeah, I really would love a spanking but was just hiding it!' it is best for everyone to break up.

I know this because I have dated a vanilla person...someone I loved and who loved me...but in bed, it was fucking terrible. I just couldn't pretend to be satisfied any longer. In fact, for months I ended up pretending I was too tired or not interested in sex because...well, i wasn't interested in sex -- with my vanilla partner.  So do yourself a favour and screen the vanillas out early before you both become too attached. Because believe me, there is nothing worse than dating a vanilla person that has a completely different idea of a 'fun time' in bed than you. Sexual chemistry is too important and life is too short to waste on a relationship that doesn't satisfy you.