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Tuesday, 13 September 2016

Can IUDs Stop Your Period?

modern-iud-device-design
Y-IUD: Not pokey and way better than copper
(yeah, crappy copper can make you bleed more, not less)
IUDs....the best kept secret in birth control. They tell you they aren't safe and only work as birth control for women who have already had a baby. This is complete bullshit.   The truth is: IUDs are completely safe for teenagers and anyone regardless if they have been pregnant or not.  IUD or intrauterine devices are being used by over 150 million women worldwide and doctors have found that teens don't have any more problems with them than anyone else. In fact, fuck heavy bleeding, they are far more likely to majorly reduce cramps and menstrual bleeding.  In fact, there are a whole lot of reasons I'm gonna discuss why you should be using an IUD.

A poll of American gynecologists found that they were 3 times more likely to prescribe IUDs than family doctors. Now why would that be? Because IUDs are simply inserted and start working immediately -- you don't have to remember to take a pill every day nor fill your body with hormones for them to be effective. And if you remove the device you can become pregnant that day.

LOWEST COST BIRTH CONTROL AVAILABLE
So why are IUDs not used more often? The answer is sadly simple: money.  IUDs are incredibly cheap.  They cost around $80-$150 here in Canada and once inserted, they last from 3-5 years officially but remember that big pharma still wants to make a buck and I've read from the Chinese sites (they have an interest in low cost due to their 1 child program) that IUDs are effective for over 10 years.   In contrast, the birth control pill produced by the pharmaceutical industry costs between $25 and $50 a month (and is a giant 'did I remember to take my pill today' pain in the ass).  Let's do the math. After 5 years, a $50 birth control prescription costs $3000...most of that profit for the drug company.  After 5 years, the IUD still has a total cost of $80.  Or $2920 less.
modern-iud-device-design
Round IUDs:
Effective & Less Pokey

Insertion by a doctor will cost you but that depends entirely on where you live. An IUD plus insertion cost $200 total for the last girl I talked to.  It takes about 4 minutes for a doctor to put it in so if you pay him $200 to do this you're being juiced for $50/minute.  Even lawyers would balk at charging a rate of $3000/hr.  But it's for 5+ years (IUDs are still effective well after their 'expiry date' because it's not like they dissolve and disappear or anything.)  Anyway, like I said, the $200 included the IUD itself the insertion was only something like $80.  (Also see below for more cost savings)

IUDs CAN SAFELY STOP YOUR PERIOD
Now for the kicker. If saving $3000 and never having to think about birth control aren't enough...how about IUDs stopping your period entirely?  You fucking read that right. IUDs can STOP YOUR PERIOD.   Hormonal IUDs reduce your period by an average of 90% (as in way less bleeding and say goodbye to cramps) -- but in many women it also stops the period entirely.  And this stopping of the period is in no way harmful nor does it reduce your future fertility.  How many women have their period stop? That depends on the exact IUD that's inserted but the popular Mirena had, "up to 70% of patients will stop having their periods within 2 years." Yeah, and most of the rest just get drastically reduced bleeding...so even if you don't win completely, you still win! Also think of how much you will save on tampons, new-fucking-underwear and extra time not spent cleaning your sheets.

Now, if your guy (or girl) is really into menstruation porn, you might want to consider other forms of birth control...but I'm inclined to tell him that's he's going to have to make some sacrifices too.

Here's the cost savings by my measure:  Tampons -$7/box.  Midol for pain relief -$7/bottle,  New panties  -$20.    Abortions (yeah, 1 in 3 women have had an abortion so...) -$400 to -$1500 per time.

IUDs PREVENT CANCER
Oh, and they also stop cervical cancer.   In 26 studies in 2011 alone, women using IUDs were 50% less likely to get cervical cancer.  Apparently the IUD triggers an immune response which fights HPV....so there's that too.  The Annals of Oncology also published a study where IUDs were used as a treatment for endometrial cancer.  27 out of 34 women ended up cancer-free after a year with 9 going on to get pregnant (This is amazing as the normal treatment for endometrial cancer is a hysterectomy.)

IUDs DON'T ABORT BABIES
They don't cause abortions.  If you are religiously inclined and think you're 'killing a fertilized egg' well, you're not.  IUDs mostly work by killing the sperm before it gets to the egg and also creating a thick mucous barrier in your hoo hoo that stops the sperm from getting to the egg. Also, hormonal IUDs also prevent ovulation so you don't release an egg to begin with. So abortions are not happening because they prevent pregnancy just like every other kind of birth control.  Of course, if you object to birth control then I won't judge you because your life will already be punishing you enough with 10 babies.

IUDs ARE THE MOST RELIABLE BIRTH CONTROL METHOD
How about preventing pregnancy.  After all, the reason you use birth control is to stop you from pooping out rugrats. Ok, technically it's far worse for you pussy than pooping but you get the idea.   So the birth control pill works about 92% of the time. Yeah, lots and lots of people get pregnant on the pill...because 8% is a massive fucking gap between the goalposts for sperm to squeeze through. But that's still better than condoms with 85% (yup...15% of those filled with manbutter get filled with screaming baby as well.) These are the practical rates from those using the pill and condoms vs the theoretical effectiveness (condoms are theoretically 98% effective so the theory is 13% higher than reality...but considering the downside, I'd say keep looking. So how do IUDs stack up?  The practical contraception rate for women using IUDs is between 99.2% and 99.9%  so...fucking brilliant.  Put mathematically: IUDs are between 1800% and 15000% more effective than condoms and 1000%-8000% more effective than the pill. So let's just say, "Way fucking better."

Here's the cost savings by my measure:  Abortions (yeah, 1 in 3 women have had an abortion so...)     -$400 to -$1500 per time.  Cost saved by not raising a child -$300 000.  

Of course, some women argue that having a foreign object inside of you is 'weird' but I'd also consider a little alien baby growing inside of you as a 'weird foreign object' but the IUD will cost you infinitely less.


Now the scary part:

The comments to this video are kinda scary but I've talked with 4 girls who've had IUDs inserted and they all said it kinda sucked for about 30 seconds and then it was fine again, The worst part? Being advised that you should refrain from sex for a 10 days after insertion when another girl said her doctor told her should could have sex right away...which is correct. ;)

Thursday, 18 August 2016

Recipe for Making Love

This is the finest recipe for making love that I know.  This is the real beans here, not stuff that you learned from a book on your grandmother's shelf -- and definitely not that smack sold by magical culinary elfs....this is the recipe for making love.

FYI, this is Harry Connick Jr.

Friday, 12 August 2016

Amber Rayne is Dead

I just learned that porn legend Amber Rayne died.  Literally. I haven't even changed rooms since I found out. I knew Amber on a personal level and we communicated...and then a few months ago she just suddenly just dropped off the face of the Earth. I knew she was rather upset because her horse had died and I thought she had fallen into depression related to that. I sent her several messages...but no reply.  I just realized that I messaged her several times after she died...including the day she died.

And this morning I stumbled across an article saying that she was found dead in her home on April 2nd...4 month ago. :'(   So much for going to a San Jose Sharks game with her.

I immediately googled all I could to find out what had happened.  Apparently she died in her sleep as a result of a cocaine overdose. No doubt a direct result of self-medicating to deal with the death of her horse...whom she is now riding and flying with in heaven.

One thing that makes me upset about all the reports about her death was...they all mention a particular porn actor she was not fond of with respect to a sexual assault.  This had absolutely no relevance to the story and was by no means a defining part of her life. She was strong and didn't let that incident trouble her and to have it mentioned in virtually every report of her death seems just plain wrong.

It would be far more appropriate to include things like she hated smurfs.

Amber Rayne was a beautiful person, both physically and inside in the places it counts. Her given name was Meghan. She was an actress first -- a traditional actress -- and was an understudy in Les Meserables and tried to break into the film industry in California but only succeeded in getting a handful of jobs as a background extra.

But she found her calling in what she described as 'the loving community' of porn. And unlike most porn actresses who cum and go, she stayed with it into her 30s -- and kept her body hot the whole time too. She starred in over 500 adult films and was nominated for over 20 adult film awards...but only won AVN's not so coveted 'Unsung Starlet of the Year' Award.  She deserved better and hopefully she will get more recognition for her work this year, as often it takes a person dying for them to be appreciated.

After retiring from porn, she became a horse trainer and she was making a new life around that  -- and she had always loved horses. In fact, her very first horse as a child was named Amber Rayne.

Monday, 1 August 2016

Dating a Vanilla Person When You Are Kinky

Sometimes, you meet someone and you just feel wildly attracted to them.  There is chemistry and soon you are just thinking about jumping their bones all the time.  But the problem is...every time you mention something 'kinky' they don't respond positively to it. What do you do?

Well, first of all, you have to ask the right questions and drop the right hints and then watch their response.  Specifically, try watching his or her micro-expressions. These are uncontrolled expressions that flash across their face for just a fleeting moment before they regain control and show you what they want you to see.  What their face very closely ... hmmm...maybe you need some practice like this:  http://www.microexpressionstest.com/micro-expressions-test/  

Good, now that you know what to look for...try mentioning spanking her -- and see what her face does...if she reacts with fear or disgust...this girl definitely has some issues with BDSM.

Perhaps you could flat out ask her what she thinks of BDSM or other kinky behaviors...as from my experience, the kinky ones generally don't have a problem talking about it. Scratch that...the experienced and active kinky ones don't. But the ones who are open to but never had the opportunity to explore may be far more concerned with how they appear to you...and not want to just simply reveal that they are good to go for fear of rejection.

The trick is: you don't want to screen out the girls who don't want to appear 'slutty' from the ones who are truly vanilla.

That said, if you do test them on a number of occasions and every time they come up as completely
vanilla...even if you really like them, it is probably not going to work out.  If she loves missionary position with the lights out and you love nasty anal while she's blindfolded and tied to the bed...both of you are on a collision course with a breakup (and mutually unsatisfactory sex).   So be sure. Sit down and have a long dicussion about what you really want in bed. Don't worry if it might go badly as most likely, at the end of this conversation, you are going to break up anyway. Unless they reveal that, 'yeah, I really would love a spanking but was just hiding it!' it is best for everyone to break up.

I know this because I have dated a vanilla person...someone I loved and who loved me...but in bed, it was fucking terrible. I just couldn't pretend to be satisfied any longer. In fact, for months I ended up pretending I was too tired or not interested in sex because...well, i wasn't interested in sex -- with my vanilla partner.  So do yourself a favour and screen the vanillas out early before you both become too attached. Because believe me, there is nothing worse than dating a vanilla person that has a completely different idea of a 'fun time' in bed than you. Sexual chemistry is too important and life is too short to waste on a relationship that doesn't satisfy you.


Sunday, 31 July 2016

Introducing 2 Slaves to Each Other


I recently had joyful experience of having 2 slaves meet each other for the first time -- I have owned and collared one of the slaves (ashlie) for 8 years now and the other is a girl new girl that I am quite fond of.  I had previously screened the new girl: ensuring that she is okay with being bisexual and poly-amorous -- and shown her photos of my sweet little ashlie to prime her engine and get her exited about meeting her.  Actually, I had spoken to each of them about the other (during sex too) to make them each excited for the meeting.  But still I was nervous.

Why was I nervous? Because it is really really important to me that my slave girls get along. And intellectually, they can say, 'I am totally excited to meet her and have sex with her' but it is still like a blind date where sometimes chemistry just clashes.

I had bought them both new corsets for the meeting...because they should both be wearing pretty new corsets and garters so each of them feels at their sexiest. In truth, the new girl told me that she was intimidated by the beauty of ashlie and she was really worried that she would like her.  I get that. But my sweet little noob has a flat little belly, great legs and a pretty face...so I wasn't too concerned. If she weighed like...140+ lbs I might be concerned but she's considerably smaller than that so I was sure that Ash would appreciate her too.

So how is it that I introduced them to each other? I invited them over and we sat down and had a drink of lemonade on the front porch and talked about politics. Just kidding! I had Ash blindfolded and wearing a corset and stockings (but no underwear) and standing in the 'at ease' position. When the new girl arrived...let's called her 'padme' -- not because she is Indian (she's Caucasian) but because her pussy is the best tasting lotus flower I have ever experienced.  I am serious...padme  has the tastiest pussy ever! It's like crack! (Pun intended)...anyway, when padme arrived she was wearing her new black corset and stockings as I had instructed.  I quickly blindfolded her before leading her inside.

I then had ashlie get down on her hands and knees with her ass spread in the air. And then I guided padme down to ashlie's tender little asshole and made her stick out her tongue so that her tongue licked Ash's tender bud.   I guided her head a little closer so that blindfolded padme could properly stick her tongue deep up ashlie's asshole.  

I then had padme turn around and stick her ass up in the air for ashlie -- and then I guided ashlie to return the favor, careful not to let any part of their bodies touch until Ash's tongue was inside padme's asshole.

And so, the very first place that they touched each other, for the very first time was the tip of their tongues to each other's assholes.

After that, I stood them both up and touched each of their bare, hairless pussies to check the moisture content...both of them were dripping. Perfect.

It was now time for them to kiss each other -- to share the flavor of each other's assholes.  They
Ash and Padme's actual first kiss
(ash is wearing a corset still but it
is hard to see and slipped down
to expose her boobies <3 )
kissed...and the sparks flew.  Both of them dove into each other and kissed each other passionately. Wonderful. I love it when kittens get along. Keep in mind that they were both blindfolded still...and had never laid eyes on each other.

It was now time for them to see each other. And I do mean see. I stood them face to face and started talking to them booth in a soothing way about how they were about to meet their slave sister -- and how I wanted them to gaze into each other's eyes for an extended time without looking away. I unblindfolded them both at the same time and they simply gazed into each other's eyes...and each girl smiled at the other. I then spoke a lot of loving words -- I kind of wish I had recorded what I had said. But the inspiration behind my words was based on Buddhist/Tantric eye gazing exercises where the eyes are the windows to the soul -- and also past experiences with eye gazing where I believe you cannot gaze into someone else's eyes for 5 minutes without 'joining' with them somehow and falling a little bit in love with them.

So I guided them to open their eyes, their hearts and souls to each other. To accept the new girl as her sister, her lover and friend.

threeway-kiss"This girl is just like you and you now have a new sister to love and support you. There is no competition with her because she is your lover. Look deep into her eyes. See her very soul. It is beautiful. Sometimes she is scared and has failures...just like you. But there is no need to hide anything from her. She understands that you are not perfect and yet both of you are perfect in your own way. See the girl before for what she is...and love her. Open your heart to her and let your hearts connect.  Feel your souls connecting through your eyes. And accept it all as a beautiful blessing."

Well, after 5 minutes of eye gazing, these two were in love. I could feel it! They were giggling like schoolgirls and we all celebrated with a series of most joyful 3-way kisses. 

In truth, this was the meeting that I had planned...but the results had exceeded my expectations. That was the last that any of us worried about 'getting along' and the following 36 hours were filled with remarkable hedonism that were flavored by this wonderful introduction.

Saturday, 30 July 2016

New Website Distractions

Notice how her ass says, "SLUT". Sweet paddle!
I have decided to create a new website (www.kinkunvieled.com) but unfortunately, I have been focused creating that and moving this blog over there -- that I haven't posted in far too long. Worse, the new website isn't even close to up so don't bother checking it out just yet.

I am planning on making a bunch of changes which will improve the blog considerably - and I am going to add a store too! Which is exciting for me mostly because I want to have a store where  I only sell awesome stuff.  I am not particularly concerned with making money as I can't imagine this website would significantly increase my considerable income -- but I am wanting to have a place where I can sell the wonderful kinky items I know are the best of quality. That and some awesome t-shirts and clothing that have a definitely kinky bend to them.

I am also thinking of switching to using my artwork and drawing of slave girls -- which is turning into a bit of an epic undertaking too as ...well, I will need a LOT of images :/

So no, I haven't disappeared...far from it! I am still working on this site and posting my kinking adventures (I will post about something that happened to me this July...ummm...tomorrow. Yes, it happened this month, it should go up this month!)

Also, I have been a wee bit distracted with a combination of 2 slaves and a heavy workload -- and rather than write about it, I have been opting for tying girls up in the dungeon ;)