Thursday, 18 August 2016
This is the finest recipe for making love that I know. This is the real beans here, not stuff that you learned from a book on your grandmother's shelf -- and definitely not that smack sold by magical culinary elfs....this is the recipe for making love.
FYI, this is Harry Connick Jr.
Friday, 12 August 2016
And this morning I stumbled across an article saying that she was found dead in her home on April 2nd...4 month ago. :'( So much for going to a San Jose Sharks game with her.
I immediately googled all I could to find out what had happened. Apparently she died in her sleep as a result of a cocaine overdose. No doubt a direct result of self-medicating to deal with the death of her horse...whom she is now riding and flying with in heaven.
One thing that makes me upset about all the reports about her death was...they all mention a particular porn actor she was not fond of with respect to a sexual assault. This had absolutely no relevance to the story and was by no means a defining part of her life. She was strong and didn't let that incident trouble her and to have it mentioned in virtually every report of her death seems just plain wrong.
It would be far more appropriate to include things like she hated smurfs.
Amber Rayne was a beautiful person, both physically and inside in the places it counts. Her given name was Meghan. She was an actress first -- a traditional actress -- and was an understudy in Les Meserables and tried to break into the film industry in California but only succeeded in getting a handful of jobs as a background extra.
But she found her calling in what she described as 'the loving community' of porn. And unlike most porn actresses who cum and go, she stayed with it into her 30s -- and kept her body hot the whole time too. She starred in over 500 adult films and was nominated for over 20 adult film awards...but only won AVN's not so coveted 'Unsung Starlet of the Year' Award. She deserved better and hopefully she will get more recognition for her work this year, as often it takes a person dying for them to be appreciated.
After retiring from porn, she became a horse trainer and she was making a new life around that -- and she had always loved horses. In fact, her very first horse as a child was named Amber Rayne.
Labels: Amber Rayne
Monday, 1 August 2016
Well, first of all, you have to ask the right questions and drop the right hints and then watch their response. Specifically, try watching his or her micro-expressions. These are uncontrolled expressions that flash across their face for just a fleeting moment before they regain control and show you what they want you to see. What their face very closely ... hmmm...maybe you need some practice like this: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/micro-expressions-test/
Good, now that you know what to look for...try mentioning spanking her -- and see what her face does...if she reacts with fear or disgust...this girl definitely has some issues with BDSM.
Perhaps you could flat out ask her what she thinks of BDSM or other kinky behaviors...as from my experience, the kinky ones generally don't have a problem talking about it. Scratch that...the experienced and active kinky ones don't. But the ones who are open to but never had the opportunity to explore may be far more concerned with how they appear to you...and not want to just simply reveal that they are good to go for fear of rejection.
The trick is: you don't want to screen out the girls who don't want to appear 'slutty' from the ones who are truly vanilla.
That said, if you do test them on a number of occasions and every time they come up as completely
I know this because I have dated a vanilla person...someone I loved and who loved me...but in bed, it was fucking terrible. I just couldn't pretend to be satisfied any longer. In fact, for months I ended up pretending I was too tired or not interested in sex because...well, i wasn't interested in sex -- with my vanilla partner. So do yourself a favour and screen the vanillas out early before you both become too attached. Because believe me, there is nothing worse than dating a vanilla person that has a completely different idea of a 'fun time' in bed than you. Sexual chemistry is too important and life is too short to waste on a relationship that doesn't satisfy you.
Sunday, 31 July 2016
Why was I nervous? Because it is really really important to me that my slave girls get along. And intellectually, they can say, 'I am totally excited to meet her and have sex with her' but it is still like a blind date where sometimes chemistry just clashes.
I had bought them both new corsets for the meeting...because they should both be wearing pretty new corsets and garters so each of them feels at their sexiest. In truth, the new girl told me that she was intimidated by the beauty of ashlie and she was really worried that she would like her. I get that. But my sweet little noob has a flat little belly, great legs and a pretty face...so I wasn't too concerned. If she weighed like...140+ lbs I might be concerned but she's considerably smaller than that so I was sure that Ash would appreciate her too.
So how is it that I introduced them to each other? I invited them over and we sat down and had a drink of lemonade on the front porch and talked about politics. Just kidding! I had Ash blindfolded and wearing a corset and stockings (but no underwear) and standing in the 'at ease' position. When the new girl arrived...let's called her 'padme' -- not because she is Indian (she's Caucasian) but because her pussy is the best tasting lotus flower I have ever experienced. I am serious...padme has the tastiest pussy ever! It's like crack! (Pun intended)...anyway, when padme arrived she was wearing her new black corset and stockings as I had instructed. I quickly blindfolded her before leading her inside.
I then had ashlie get down on her hands and knees with her ass spread in the air. And then I guided padme down to ashlie's tender little asshole and made her stick out her tongue so that her tongue licked Ash's tender bud. I guided her head a little closer so that blindfolded padme could properly stick her tongue deep up ashlie's asshole.
I then had padme turn around and stick her ass up in the air for ashlie -- and then I guided ashlie to return the favor, careful not to let any part of their bodies touch until Ash's tongue was inside padme's asshole.
And so, the very first place that they touched each other, for the very first time was the tip of their tongues to each other's assholes.
After that, I stood them both up and touched each of their bare, hairless pussies to check the moisture content...both of them were dripping. Perfect.
It was now time for them to kiss each other -- to share the flavor of each other's assholes. They
|Ash and Padme's actual first kiss|
(ash is wearing a corset still but it
is hard to see and slipped down
to expose her boobies <3 )
It was now time for them to see each other. And I do mean see. I stood them face to face and started talking to them booth in a soothing way about how they were about to meet their slave sister -- and how I wanted them to gaze into each other's eyes for an extended time without looking away. I unblindfolded them both at the same time and they simply gazed into each other's eyes...and each girl smiled at the other. I then spoke a lot of loving words -- I kind of wish I had recorded what I had said. But the inspiration behind my words was based on Buddhist/Tantric eye gazing exercises where the eyes are the windows to the soul -- and also past experiences with eye gazing where I believe you cannot gaze into someone else's eyes for 5 minutes without 'joining' with them somehow and falling a little bit in love with them.
So I guided them to open their eyes, their hearts and souls to each other. To accept the new girl as her sister, her lover and friend.
"This girl is just like you and you now have a new sister to love and support you. There is no competition with her because she is your lover. Look deep into her eyes. See her very soul. It is beautiful. Sometimes she is scared and has failures...just like you. But there is no need to hide anything from her. She understands that you are not perfect and yet both of you are perfect in your own way. See the girl before for what she is...and love her. Open your heart to her and let your hearts connect. Feel your souls connecting through your eyes. And accept it all as a beautiful blessing."
Well, after 5 minutes of eye gazing, these two were in love. I could feel it! They were giggling like schoolgirls and we all celebrated with a series of most joyful 3-way kisses.
In truth, this was the meeting that I had planned...but the results had exceeded my expectations. That was the last that any of us worried about 'getting along' and the following 36 hours were filled with remarkable hedonism that were flavored by this wonderful introduction.
Saturday, 30 July 2016
|Notice how her ass says, "SLUT". Sweet paddle!|
I am planning on making a bunch of changes which will improve the blog considerably - and I am going to add a store too! Which is exciting for me mostly because I want to have a store where I only sell awesome stuff. I am not particularly concerned with making money as I can't imagine this website would significantly increase my considerable income -- but I am wanting to have a place where I can sell the wonderful kinky items I know are the best of quality. That and some awesome t-shirts and clothing that have a definitely kinky bend to them.
I am also thinking of switching to using my artwork and drawing of slave girls -- which is turning into a bit of an epic undertaking too as ...well, I will need a LOT of images :/
So no, I haven't disappeared...far from it! I am still working on this site and posting my kinking adventures (I will post about something that happened to me this July...ummm...tomorrow. Yes, it happened this month, it should go up this month!)
Also, I have been a wee bit distracted with a combination of 2 slaves and a heavy workload -- and rather than write about it, I have been opting for tying girls up in the dungeon ;)
Wednesday, 1 June 2016
Even when one is kinky and has 24/7 lifestyle kink built into their life -- it doesn't mean they have the time and energy to be full on wild and devious every second of the day. But if I choose to kiss my slave -- and enjoy that sensual, sexy feeling, isn't that part of hedonistic-ally enjoying the shit out of life?
And sometimes life is just better sitting down with my slave and playing Diablo or Perfect World and geeking it out with them playing video games. [Aside: Is there any really good co-operative 3 player fantasy adventure games out there? I need a good one for 3-4 people to play ;) ]
My point is, while I have a deep passion for all things kinky -- I am not a one dimensional raving hard on that only has the capacity to fuck and that's it. I am a fully realized man and I am into a wide variety of things -- and kink is just one of them. If I wanted to go skydiving, take off for a month and backpack across Asia or just go sailing...It doesn't mean I'm not kinky: It means I'm interesting.
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